I have some friends who have found everything on their list (handsome, six figure income), only to realize once they’re committed to this person that personality wise, they’re not a good match or that they’ve had to compromise in other areas in order to meet their “dream partner requirements” (for example, having a partner that actually has time to spend with them and/or is faithful.)
I’ve heard time and time again, the same friends say, “I just want to meet someone the old fashioned way – like my grandparents did. They’ve been married for 50 years.” Sure, things seemed simpler back then. People met the guy/girl next door, fell in love and got married. Roll credits. But, keep in mind that your grandparents probably didn’t have an extensive list of characteristics that they absolutely had to have fulfilled by their partner. My Grandma married my Grandpa when she was eighteen and he was twenty. When I asked her what made her fall for my Grandpa, she said, “He was handsome and the sex was good.” Totally awkward, but to the point. Couples from that era followed their hearts and grew into the relationship – for better or for worse.
While I’m not suggesting that we all marry the first person we think is hot and good in bed, I think we could all stand to let go of the idea of finding the “perfect” partner and instead look for “diamonds in the rough.” Here’s how you can turn that dating “maybe” can turn into a “yes!”
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Click Here She is waiting you: Date with Me

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